In every cuckold couple, just as in vanilla couples, lies the ability to be dishonest or to be totally honest. And remember here that sometimes saying nothing at all, and thus hiding your true feelings, is tantamount to lying to each other. When you do that, no matter if you're in the cuckold lifestyle or the straight lifestyle, you also run the risk of really messing that relationship up, possibly beyond repair. I wanted to bring this to your attention because I recently witnessed, very close at hand, what damage that can do.
A while back I trained a couple who were contemplating entering the cuck lifestyle. That all worked out fine and both agreed to "give it a go" as the Australian saying goes. He would bath her, clean her, dry her, dress her, and bring her to her Dominants home to be serviced in what ever way Her Dominant wished. He would, after dropping her off and dependant on what he and her Dominant had agreed on for that day, either drive back home to await her call to be picked up again, or sit in his parked car again waiting for her to phone him, or come into her Dominants home to either sit and listen or sit naked in a straight backed chair watching her Dominant using her for His pleasure, then dress her and take her home again.
Her Dominant had never shown any interest at all in having the cuckold provide cleaning duties, on her or on Him. Over the relatively short time of the relationship between the cuckoldress and her Dominant, she had grown very fond of her Dominant, and of the commanding, yet mainly respectful way He treated her, so much so that she had begun to fall in Love with her Dominant, and less so with her husband. Her husband, the cuckold, had also been hiding the fact that he wished strongly to provide cleanup duties for both of them, as well as, on the one time thus far when her Dominant had arranged for four other men and one bisexual female to be at His home to enjoy the cuckoldress as well.
Since neither had been honest enough with each other to state their changing feelings and desires to each other, they grew farther and farther apart.- until, thank God, her Dominant picked up on these feelings between them, and called a meeting of the three of them. At that meeting the Dominant explained what He had witnessed, and overcoming any protestations of innocence on either of their parts finally had them both agree openly that His observation was indeed correct.
The Dominant then left the discussion, saying that He would return in two hours to see what they were going to do about the continued living in their relationship, and what they would do about their feelings now and their continued involvement in the lifestyle.
He returned two hours later to find a happy, open, loving couple, who had pledged to each other, and now to Him, to never lie to their partner or to her Dominant ever again. The Dominant was relieved as he was not in love with the cuckoldress (in lust, yes, but not in love) and the cuck was honest and said he wished henceforth to do cleaning duties on his wife, her Dominant, and any other "guests" who may wish it as well.
That relationship was saved, but only because the Dominant had kept an eye peeled for changing emotions and desires. This goes to point out yet again the continued necessity to maintain honesty in a cuckold relationship on a continuing basis. If you don't, you run the risk of destroying what you already have, and no one wants that. Though this threesome is still together as a threesome, the Dominant has suggested that finding another Dominant for her is now a priority and a good safety measure for the couples continued growth.
So, in conclusion, please, please give the occasional "emotion and need check" to yourself and make sure you remain honest with yourself and your partner.
And to those who haven't figured it out yet, yes, I was the Dominant.
Sir.Strict,
o
A while back I trained a couple who were contemplating entering the cuck lifestyle. That all worked out fine and both agreed to "give it a go" as the Australian saying goes. He would bath her, clean her, dry her, dress her, and bring her to her Dominants home to be serviced in what ever way Her Dominant wished. He would, after dropping her off and dependant on what he and her Dominant had agreed on for that day, either drive back home to await her call to be picked up again, or sit in his parked car again waiting for her to phone him, or come into her Dominants home to either sit and listen or sit naked in a straight backed chair watching her Dominant using her for His pleasure, then dress her and take her home again.
Her Dominant had never shown any interest at all in having the cuckold provide cleaning duties, on her or on Him. Over the relatively short time of the relationship between the cuckoldress and her Dominant, she had grown very fond of her Dominant, and of the commanding, yet mainly respectful way He treated her, so much so that she had begun to fall in Love with her Dominant, and less so with her husband. Her husband, the cuckold, had also been hiding the fact that he wished strongly to provide cleanup duties for both of them, as well as, on the one time thus far when her Dominant had arranged for four other men and one bisexual female to be at His home to enjoy the cuckoldress as well.
Since neither had been honest enough with each other to state their changing feelings and desires to each other, they grew farther and farther apart.- until, thank God, her Dominant picked up on these feelings between them, and called a meeting of the three of them. At that meeting the Dominant explained what He had witnessed, and overcoming any protestations of innocence on either of their parts finally had them both agree openly that His observation was indeed correct.
The Dominant then left the discussion, saying that He would return in two hours to see what they were going to do about the continued living in their relationship, and what they would do about their feelings now and their continued involvement in the lifestyle.
He returned two hours later to find a happy, open, loving couple, who had pledged to each other, and now to Him, to never lie to their partner or to her Dominant ever again. The Dominant was relieved as he was not in love with the cuckoldress (in lust, yes, but not in love) and the cuck was honest and said he wished henceforth to do cleaning duties on his wife, her Dominant, and any other "guests" who may wish it as well.
That relationship was saved, but only because the Dominant had kept an eye peeled for changing emotions and desires. This goes to point out yet again the continued necessity to maintain honesty in a cuckold relationship on a continuing basis. If you don't, you run the risk of destroying what you already have, and no one wants that. Though this threesome is still together as a threesome, the Dominant has suggested that finding another Dominant for her is now a priority and a good safety measure for the couples continued growth.
So, in conclusion, please, please give the occasional "emotion and need check" to yourself and make sure you remain honest with yourself and your partner.
And to those who haven't figured it out yet, yes, I was the Dominant.
Sir.Strict,
o
