Showing posts with label Dominant. Show all posts
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Thursday, January 16, 2014

Looking to own a cuckold couple near Me

As a Cuck Dom, I have not owned a cuckold couple for a few years now, and therefore seek a couple who wish to enter this lifestyle, or are already a part of it, who live either ON the Gold Coast of Queensland Australia, or close to it so that meeting on a somewhat regular basis is feasable.

The requirements for this couple are relatively simple. I shall post those requirements below in the hope that either a Cuckoldress or her cuckold will find this ad and contact Me.

The Cuckoldress is their family Mistress, but she also wishes to be owned, used, and appreciated by a Dominant Male Who knows what he is doing.

Her cuckold's duties are primarily to serve Her in any capacity she requires. His primary functions are:
a) take care of her every need, including her financial and medical needs.
b) he will willingly attempt to find suitable lovers for her to enjoy. He gathers information about these men and brings those suitable to her attention. She is the SOLE judge of whom she has, or does not have, sex with.
c) he will bathe her, shave her, and ensure she is suitably dressed to be presented to her Sir for His enjoyment, or to a potential lover for His enjoyment.
d) he will, at her request, transport her to and from her Sir's residence, whenever She wishes to visit her Sir.
e) he will do whatever her Sir commands, knowing that any command from Him has been discussed and approved by the Cuckoldress prior to it being announced.
f) he may, occasionally, be allowed to sit in a nearby room and listen to the sounds of his Mistress and her Sir making love.
g) he may, occasionally, be allowed to sit naked in a chair and watch his Mistress making love to, and servicing her Sir.
h) he may NOT speak unless spoken to, nor touch himself when watching his Mistress servicing her Sir, unless expressedly given permission to do so.
i) he will follow any direction given to him by his Mistress or her Sir. That includes doing cleanup duty orally after they have made love (if commanded to do so), or, suck any male to hardness if he is to be enjoyed by his Mistress. It is his duty to ensure that ANY male that his Mistress will use, will be in readiness to give her maximum pleasure.
j) he will to whatever his Mistress, or her Sir, commands him to do, immediately and without hesitation. Failure to do so will result in a punishment of him sleeping in their car for at least one night (at his Mistresses desire).

That is what I am looking for. If there is a couple near to where I am who feel they seek a Dominant Male for her to have as her Sir, contact Me and we will arrange to meet and discuss this in more detail.

This is a serious search for the right couple. If you seek a Master to serve, contact Me as soon as possible.

Sir.Strict@gmail.com

Thursday, July 17, 2008

What is the role of a cuckold?

First of all let's look at some definitions.

The Online Encyclopaedia called Wikipedia describes a cuckold as follows: "A cuckold (or cuck) is a married man whose wife has sex with other men. In current usage it sometimes refers to non-married couples in committed relationships as well, although the traditional meaning is a man whose wife is adulterous."

The article, found at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cuckold, goes on to say that "The earliest written use of the Middle English derivation, “cokewold” occurs in 1250." Therefore this is not something new, and many, many people throughout the ages have willingly participated in this lifestyle for many years.

The article also correctly states that "A man who knows and acquiesced, in his wife’s taking of another lover was called a “wittol” itself a derivation from the Middle English for “willing (as in knowing) cuckold.”

For our purposes, the term cuckold will suffice. Therefore, though originally a cuckold was considered to be a man who had a partner who had sexual relations with other men while he remained unaware of her "infidelity" so to speak, in today’s usage the male cuckold is often the instigator of sexual relations between his partner and others.

The reasons for this are many and varied and it would be inappropriate to try and state them all here. However, one important point should be made here: suffice it to say that the male does NOT love his partner less because of her sexual exploits. In fact he could be said to love her MORE, in that he is willing to share her so that she can, unencumbered by sexual mores of society, or the fear that he will leave the marriage because of her needs, enjoy her own sexual needs and ensure they are met.

Usually there are various reasons (often physical) that he finds that he is incapable of providing all of the sexual enjoyment that his partner rightfully deserves. It may be that medication he takes for various conditions (heart disease, high blood pressure, and diabetes to name but a few) have caused him to be unable to raise, or to maintain, an erection for long enough to achieve an orgasm for his partner. He may also have a physical “under-endowment” in relation to size, girth, or length that his partner requires to reach her orgasm.

Most have tried and still do use oral sex as a way of satisfying their partners, but that too can become boring after a while. Many cuckold males also find that they either are bisexual or at least are also bi-curious, and thus the thought of watching another male have intercourse or any sexual activity of any kind with his partner is exciting. He may also harbour desires to suck the ejaculate from his partners various holes (as a bisexual submissive humiliation act) and also may desire to suck clean any males penis that have penetrated his partner.

Most males in this situation at first fear that their partner will shun them totally, and/or that the sexual Dominant will exclude him from further contact with his partner and thus damage the relationship he presently has with his partner. If the sexual Dominant is a capable and knowledgeable Dominant, they would never ever allow the couple to separate because of the situation they find themselves in. The Dominant is NOT there to wreck homes nor relationships (this will be explained further in another post).

Therefore, assuming that the cuckold couple are in agreement on the issue of her being sexually fulfilled by a strong knowledgeable Dominant, the role of the cuckold is to bath, wash, clean, and shave his partner, and generally prepare her for his and her Dominants use sexually. A cuckold may be required to transport the female to her Dominant and retrieve her when called to do so.

He may also be either required to leave while the sexual liaison between the female and her Dominant takes place, or, may be required to accompany the female and simply stand or sit and watch as she is used sexually by her Dominant. This is, of course, an act that adds to the “humiliation” aspect of a cuckold existence and is wanted by many cuckolds.

Some cuckolds will also be required (and enjoy being asked) to provide "fluffer" duties when told to (sucking male penises to erection) and may also be required to provide "cleanup" duties, which may entail sucking the ejaculate from his female partners various orifices, and/or sucking any male penis clean that has finished using her for their mutual sexual pleasure.

Thus, some (not all, but a majority actually) will freely admit to being bisexual or at least bi-curious and having that fantasy fulfilled as well as seeing or hearing or being told of his partners sexual activity with her lover(s).

The cuckold also should be allowed to have access to the sexual Dominant for guidance, control, and/or to ask any question about their relationship that he wishes to ask. A competent Dominant will always keep the male cuckold safe from harm and will answer any questions he may have at any time, or at a specified question time. The level of submission and humiliation will differ from individual to individual and should be worked out between the sexual Dominant and the cuckold through communication.

Thus, in essence, the cuckold is trying to do two things:

a) provide his female partner with any and all sexual gratification that she requires or desires.

b) fulfil a fantasy of domination by a sexual Dominant, of both his partner and himself.

Again, if you have any questions feel free to write Me at sir.strict@gmail.com and I will attempt to answer them directly or in this blog.

Sir.Strict - THE DomTrainerOfCuckCpls