Looking to own a cuckold couple near Me

As a Cuck Dom, I have not owned a cuckold couple for a few years now, and therefore seek a couple who wish to enter this lifestyle, or are already a part of it, who live either ON the Gold Coast of Queensland Australia, or close to it so that meeting on a somewhat regular basis is feasable.

The requirements for this couple are relatively simple. I shall post those requirements below in the hope that either a Cuckoldress or her cuckold will find this ad and contact Me.

The Cuckoldress is their family Mistress, but she also wishes to be owned, used, and appreciated by a Dominant Male Who knows what he is doing.

Her cuckold's duties are primarily to serve Her in any capacity she requires. His primary functions are:
a) take care of her every need, including her financial and medical needs.
b) he will willingly attempt to find suitable lovers for her to enjoy. He gathers information about these men and brings those suitable to her attention. She is the SOLE judge of whom she has, or does not have, sex with.
c) he will bathe her, shave her, and ensure she is suitably dressed to be presented to her Sir for His enjoyment, or to a potential lover for His enjoyment.
d) he will, at her request, transport her to and from her Sir's residence, whenever She wishes to visit her Sir.
e) he will do whatever her Sir commands, knowing that any command from Him has been discussed and approved by the Cuckoldress prior to it being announced.
f) he may, occasionally, be allowed to sit in a nearby room and listen to the sounds of his Mistress and her Sir making love.
g) he may, occasionally, be allowed to sit naked in a chair and watch his Mistress making love to, and servicing her Sir.
h) he may NOT speak unless spoken to, nor touch himself when watching his Mistress servicing her Sir, unless expressedly given permission to do so.
i) he will follow any direction given to him by his Mistress or her Sir. That includes doing cleanup duty orally after they have made love (if commanded to do so), or, suck any male to hardness if he is to be enjoyed by his Mistress. It is his duty to ensure that ANY male that his Mistress will use, will be in readiness to give her maximum pleasure.
j) he will to whatever his Mistress, or her Sir, commands him to do, immediately and without hesitation. Failure to do so will result in a punishment of him sleeping in their car for at least one night (at his Mistresses desire).

That is what I am looking for. If there is a couple near to where I am who feel they seek a Dominant Male for her to have as her Sir, contact Me and we will arrange to meet and discuss this in more detail.

This is a serious search for the right couple. If you seek a Master to serve, contact Me as soon as possible.

Sir.Strict@gmail.com

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What is the role of a cuckold?

First of all let's look at some definitions.

The Online Encyclopaedia called Wikipedia describes a cuckold as follows: "A cuckold (or cuck) is a married man whose wife has sex with other men. In current usage it sometimes refers to non-married couples in committed relationships as well, although the traditional meaning is a man whose wife is adulterous."

The article, found at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cuckold, goes on to say that "The earliest written use of the Middle English derivation, “cokewold” occurs in 1250." Therefore this is not something new, and many, many people throughout the ages have willingly participated in this lifestyle for many years.

The article also correctly states that "A man who knows and acquiesced, in his wife’s taking of another lover was called a “wittol” itself a derivation from the Middle English for “willing (as in knowing) cuckold.”

For our purposes, the term cuckold will suffice. Therefore, though originally a cuckold was considered to be a man who had a partner who had sexual relations with other men while he remained unaware of her "infidelity" so to speak, in today’s usage the male cuckold is often the instigator of sexual relations between his partner and others.

The reasons for this are many and varied and it would be inappropriate to try and state them all here. However, one important point should be made here: suffice it to say that the male does NOT love his partner less because of her sexual exploits. In fact he could be said to love her MORE, in that he is willing to share her so that she can, unencumbered by sexual mores of society, or the fear that he will leave the marriage because of her needs, enjoy her own sexual needs and ensure they are met.

Usually there are various reasons (often physical) that he finds that he is incapable of providing all of the sexual enjoyment that his partner rightfully deserves. It may be that medication he takes for various conditions (heart disease, high blood pressure, and diabetes to name but a few) have caused him to be unable to raise, or to maintain, an erection for long enough to achieve an orgasm for his partner. He may also have a physical “under-endowment” in relation to size, girth, or length that his partner requires to reach her orgasm.

Most have tried and still do use oral sex as a way of satisfying their partners, but that too can become boring after a while. Many cuckold males also find that they either are bisexual or at least are also bi-curious, and thus the thought of watching another male have intercourse or any sexual activity of any kind with his partner is exciting. He may also harbour desires to suck the ejaculate from his partners various holes (as a bisexual submissive humiliation act) and also may desire to suck clean any males penis that have penetrated his partner.

Most males in this situation at first fear that their partner will shun them totally, and/or that the sexual Dominant will exclude him from further contact with his partner and thus damage the relationship he presently has with his partner. If the sexual Dominant is a capable and knowledgeable Dominant, they would never ever allow the couple to separate because of the situation they find themselves in. The Dominant is NOT there to wreck homes nor relationships (this will be explained further in another post).

Therefore, assuming that the cuckold couple are in agreement on the issue of her being sexually fulfilled by a strong knowledgeable Dominant, the role of the cuckold is to bath, wash, clean, and shave his partner, and generally prepare her for his and her Dominants use sexually. A cuckold may be required to transport the female to her Dominant and retrieve her when called to do so.

He may also be either required to leave while the sexual liaison between the female and her Dominant takes place, or, may be required to accompany the female and simply stand or sit and watch as she is used sexually by her Dominant. This is, of course, an act that adds to the “humiliation” aspect of a cuckold existence and is wanted by many cuckolds.

Some cuckolds will also be required (and enjoy being asked) to provide "fluffer" duties when told to (sucking male penises to erection) and may also be required to provide "cleanup" duties, which may entail sucking the ejaculate from his female partners various orifices, and/or sucking any male penis clean that has finished using her for their mutual sexual pleasure.

Thus, some (not all, but a majority actually) will freely admit to being bisexual or at least bi-curious and having that fantasy fulfilled as well as seeing or hearing or being told of his partners sexual activity with her lover(s).

The cuckold also should be allowed to have access to the sexual Dominant for guidance, control, and/or to ask any question about their relationship that he wishes to ask. A competent Dominant will always keep the male cuckold safe from harm and will answer any questions he may have at any time, or at a specified question time. The level of submission and humiliation will differ from individual to individual and should be worked out between the sexual Dominant and the cuckold through communication.

Thus, in essence, the cuckold is trying to do two things:

a) provide his female partner with any and all sexual gratification that she requires or desires.

b) fulfil a fantasy of domination by a sexual Dominant, of both his partner and himself.

Again, if you have any questions feel free to write Me at sir.strict@gmail.com and I will attempt to answer them directly or in this blog.

Sir.Strict - THE DomTrainerOfCuckCpls

Hello and Welcome

Hello. Thank you for stopping by.

This blog will no doubt not suit all who come across it, but it is something I feel is necessary for the help of others. I am an older Cuckold Dom, which means that I am a Dominant Male, retired, and who now finds Himself with more time to devote to the education process about the cuckold lifestyle. I have successfully trained couples in this lifestyle for over 32 years at present.

If you are offended by talk of a male who not only allows, but encourages his partner to have sex with other males and females, and who himself may also desire to be a bisexual submissive under the guidance and control of a Dominant Male who will assist the couple to find happiness, safely, sanely, and with good humor, then this blog is NOT for you. I intend over time to pass on wisdom and indeed, training, that I have found in this lifestyle and instruction of how a Cuckold Dom should treat his couple, as well as what each member of the couple should expect and work towards in their relationship with their Dominant.

I should start by saying that the Dominant can be Male or Female. In My case I am a Male Dominant and I can really only speak from that perspective.

If you decide to continue reading this blog as I post to it, you will find the philosophy I have used when in control of a competent couple who wish to expand their relationship in this manner. I am not saying that what I suggest in this blog is the ONLY way things should be done - far from it. Each relationship is different from each other relationship simply because each individual is different. Their wants, needs, and desires may differ immensley and thus each Dom/Domme-couple relationship will differ as well.

Having said that I will try to impart My reasoning and thought process of how I have handled the couples I have owned in the past (yes, it is a form of ownership and yes, it applies to both the male and the female member of the couple), and indeed, how I would handle any in the future. At the moment I have released the last couple I had so I am indeed, without a suitable cuckold couple to have as My own.

Definitions:

A cuckold couple is a couple (normally but not always, male and female) wherein the female is encouraged by her partner to seek sexual gratification from other males. This may be because of any of the following reasons:

a) the male has a very small cock and thus feels that he can never fulfill the wants, needs, and desires of his female partner.

b) the male, through medication for heart conditions or possibly even diabeties, has found that he no longer can raise an erection and thus wishes his partner to find sexual gratification elsewhere.

c) the male may also wish to feel mild forms of humiliation in that his partner is finding other males to satisfy her, and the feeling of humiliation is a sexual turnon to that male.

d) the male may be (even closeted) bisexual and wish to have his partner under the sexual control of other men, and also wishes for himself to be under the same sexual control.

e) the male simply feels that other males fucking his wife/partner is a tremendous sexual turnon for him.

1) the female finds that she cannot achieve orgasm because her partners sexual equipment is either not large enough, is not able to remain hard for long enough for her to orgasm, and/or her partner orgasms too quickly for her to achieve her own orgasm.

2) she always has had various sexual partners and wishes to continue that practice even though she is now married to someone.

3) she wishes to be under the sexual control of a Strong Dominant Male or Female, and thus be that Dominant's sexual submissive.

4) she wishes to humiliate her partner as she knows it is something that excites her partner and thus will submit to a Dominant's demands and control.

If you find that ANY of the above relate to yourself, you are a prime candidate to becoming a sexual submissive to a Strong Dominant and thus, if you are in a relationship that is of long standing (marriage for instance) you are part the way there to becoming a cuckold partner.

Note: to make this work, BOTH the male and female partners need to be in agreement about their sexual future and activity. They need to discuss the reamifications of entering this lifestyle - and NO - this lifestyle does NOT mean that the couple separates. Likewise this lifestyle is NOT for everyone. They will both, in ideal circumstance, be submissive to the same Dominant Master and thus join forces to enhance their mutual sexual enjoyment.

That's more than enough to get this started. I look forward to having you read this post often. If you wish to contact Me you may do so at Sir.Strict@gmail.com. If you have a question about the lifestyle, ask, and I will try to answer it to the best of My ability.

In the mean time, be safe, well, and happy, and greetings from the Gold Coast of Queensland, Australia.

Sir.Strict - THE DomTrainerOfCuckCpls