Let Me Make Something VERY Clear...

Hello All. Thank you for reading this post.

The reason it is written at all is that, somewhere along the line, people (new people I should say) have gotten something REALLY wrong about Me and about this site and blog. I need to set this record straight once and for all.

The purpose of this blog is to try and clarify to some degree things one might find in the Cuckold lifestyle, and things you might be unaware of if you are just venturing into this lifestyle in any way. It also is here as a point of contact for BOTH members of any cuckold partnership, a place where you can ask for clarification about something in the lifestyle or where you KNOW that you will ONLY get truth as I see it. It does not mean that I'm always correct in My opinion, but you can be assured that it is, indeed, My opinion and that I truly believe what I say to be true.

The reason I am writing this particular post is actually quite simple and is stated now:

I am Sick and Tired of getting email from jerk-off male cuckolds (or rather, potential cuckolds) who want Me (or anyone) to "force" or to "entice" or to "cajole" their female partner into participating in this lifestyle. I DO NOT DO ANY OF THAT - and if you need that kind of help, you're a sick fuck and I want NOTHING to do with you. Is that clear???

People I help in this lifestyle do so "willingly". They are NOT forced, nor cajoled, nor enticed into it. Either she has recognized that she needs more cock (or maybe even simply more dominance) than you can give her, or she is NOT interested. If you are lame enough to not have:

1. talked with her about this lifestyle and thus guaged her reaction to it

2. read this blog in it's entirety and then asked her to do the same - then discussed it sitting opposite each other (NOT in bed - where it remains a fantasy)...like real actual adults.

3. discussed with her the possibility of seeking help in entering this lifestyle so that you do not harm the relationship you already have...

then I do NOT want to hear from you.

I have been fortunate in that I have met many many wonderful people from this blog, who come to take the "course" I offer (which is totally free of charge by the way), and those who have simply asked for clarification of one issue or another re this lifestyle. I do NOT need to make more "acquaintances" to further that educational process.

So if you're considering writing Me to try and convince Me to force or entice your female partner into this lifestyle, don't waste your or My time. If you're that much of a desperate jerk-off then it's not My help you need and I'm certainly not going to assist you in your pathetic attempt to find something else to jerk off to.

Those wishing real guidance, and real assistance, in entering this lifestyle and wish to ensure that it does not damage what you already have, please contact Me. Those looking for help in forcing someone else to fulfill your pathetic fantasy? Get a life.

Clear enough?? If you find this post offensive, tough shit. I really don't care. I am not here to blow happy smoke up your ass. I'm here to try and help people, at least those who deserve that help, just as I have in the past. I will continue to do that in any way I can - whether you like that or not.

"climbs down off His soap box and goes back to whatever He was doing before starting this rant".

Enjoy your day. 

Checking Email

Hello All. I recently had a message from a relatively new cuck named Willy. Willy tried to explain his background and then asked for help. When I tried to answer him, the email I sent bounced back saying that his account (on Yahoo.com) simply did not exist.

My point is this: If you are going to write (not only Me, but anyone) and expect some kind of response - make sure your email address is typed correctly. Actually sending an email without checking that your reply to email address is spelled properly is a total waste of time - not only the time of the person you're writing to but of your own as well.

So, When ever you send email to ANYONE, and in particular to Me, make sure your reply email address is correct. That not only makes common sense but it also prevents you or your respondent wasting time.

And WILLY - if you read this, write again, but make sure your email address is correct this time.

Sir.Strict@gmail.com

Read This BEFORE contacting Sir.Strict

I added this to another post on here that is titled Contacting Sir.Strict. However, like many things online, people, it appears, ONLY read or skim the surface of things before doing what they wish to do anyway. Thus, this post with this title.

Let Me first state that I have NO interest in speaking with children and I refuse to do it at any time. I have recently been contacted by (supposedly) two couples who wish to discuss this lifestyle. I say supposedly because they will ask questions and expect answers but when I say "The following must be done, to ensure all of us know we are speaking with adults" they suddenly 'disappear' into nothingness just showing that they are fakes and frauds, and thus most likely horny teenagers or adults who are looking for wank material. Sorry, but that is NOT Me.

The other post states this in it's content: The article is called "Contacting Sir Strict" so one would suppose that that would be read in it's entirety. That would however be a wrong assumption. It states:

B) If I agree to speak with the two of you the following rule is NON-NEGOTIABLE. You and I will speak on one of the chat messengers (I have MSN Messenger, Yahoo Messenger, and Skype) so if you have none of those, get one. They are all free to use and to download. When we speak We will ALL use a webcam and voice communications. No webcam and voice capability? NO talk. It's that simple. ALL new computers (bought in the past 3 years) have voice and video capability so if yours doesn't work, get it repaired and we will talk. Do NOT ask to communicate online if you don't have a webcam and voice working from one of the three chat messengers listed above. Again, No chat messenger, No video webcam and NO voice = NO communication with Me directly at all. UNDERSTOOD ??? 


Now is that too difficult to understand? IS THAT in any way an ambiguous statement? And yes, it DOES APPLY TO YOU, and I don't really give a rats ass who you are.

When you write Me the first time, you will say, in that communication, that you wish to talk directly with Me (or wish My help with whatever problem you feel you might have), then tell Me which of the above chat messengers you have an account on (if you don't have one of those, Google it by name and download and install it on your computer), and include your screen-name on that facility. If I agree to speak with you I will email you that I have added you to My list of contacts and will require you to both be online to Me the FIRST time we speak. 

If your camera or mic do not work, get a new one. I DO NOT speak, even in email, with anyone I have NOT verified as being the adult you purport to be. Simple?

If you don't understand that statement, or indeed, anything written in this post, then you have insufficient intelligence to understand anything I may say to you, and thus don't email Me in the first place.

Understood? I can not make it any clearer. YOU WILL have a chat messenger - one of the three listed above. YOU WILL have a working voice communications microphone (which may be built into your webcam which you will also have). YOU WILL have an account on the chat messenger you have chosen and YOU WILL have a nickname on that messenger. Tell Me which one to use, and your chat nickname, and when I have found you and added you to My list of contacts we shall talk, BUT NOT UNTIL THEN.

I do look forward to speaking with you, but I WILL NOT counterman this rule for ANYONE on the planet. Understood? Get it done and let Me help you.

Sir.Strict

Updates as at 21 Oct 2011

Hello all and thank you for reading this update.

1. There appears to be some confusion that I wish to clear up, so please note and pass this on to anyone else who you feel needs to know this. Thank you.

2. I presently do NOT have a cuckold couple of My own. Apparently some think I have, and though I did a couple of years ago, since they moved state for better jobs, I no longer have a couple. Am I looking for one? Hmm.. yes, in a way I am. My role with a cuckold couple is as follows: After meeting and negotiation (to ensure everyone is on the same page)....

a) The couple understands that they both are submissive to Me at ALL times, and that I will primarily serve as HER Dominant male (I refuse to use the degrading term "stud"), then as His Dominant male as well. My main purpose is to ensure she is protected and is used for My sexual enjoyment, no matter where, or when, or how that evolves.

b) The Cuckoldress will obey MY commands at all times. She will consider herself owned by Me... and should the necessity arise that I feel she requires discipline at any time, I WILL administer that discipline Myself. Normally My discipline entails a bare handed, OTK spanking, and may include spanking or slapping to other parts of her anatomy. I will always, without exception, ensure that she is never harmed.. but I will incorporate face slapping, tit slapping, and cunt slapping if I deem it necessary or appropriate. I will also, when required, spank her with wooden kitchen implements (wooden spoon and wooden wide spatula), My belts (and I have many),,, and a wooden backed hair brush. These are only what is available.. not what will always be used.

c) The cuckold will provide "fluffing" duties when called on, clean-up of My cuckoldress when she is finished providing sex, and will also offer His ass for use to anyone I deem worthy of that privilege. He will consider Himself My property as well and will obey all commands, including acting as "drinks provider, waitress," or in any other capacity I may require from time to time. Unless commanded otherwise, he will remain clothed at all times.

d) His access to My cuckoldress will be determined and agreed on at the time. When I am using her, he may, by negotiation, sit in a chair and watch, or sit in an adjacent room and listen, or leave My presence and go to another venue for as long as I say. He is NEVER to rise or attempt in any way to "join in" unless he is specifically told to do so. He will be used and that use will primarily be decided by the Cuckoldress and Myself in consultation.

So yes, as you can see, I seek a good, reliable cuckold couple to have as My own... to guide, to use, and to enjoy so that all of us may enjoy ourselves. I am NOT a cruel Master, but I am Strict - thus My name. When I give a command to My property (be it cuckoldress or cuckold) I expect it to be carried out fully with immediate, exact, and complete obedience. Nothing less is acceptable.

Thus, should you be seeking a Dominant who is knowledgeable, who will own the two of you, who will also protect the two of you, who will sexually enjoy her at any time and in any way He pleases, and enjoy him in his servitude to Me and My commands, then contact Me and let's meet and talk.

I am very sexually motivated and require a cuckoldress who will provide Me with interesting and enjoyable sex as often as possible. They both will look on Me as their Master, their Sir, who is to be obeyed and pleasured at all times.

You need only be within travelling distance to the Southport end of the Gold Coast to be practical in your service to Me. I will also require service, in most instances, on weekdays as My weekends and evenings are filled with other pursuits.

I hope to hear from any interested parties soon. I plan on fulfilling this position within the next month... so do contact Me as soon as possible, at Sir.Strict@gmail.com explaining why you are contacting Me and what you offer Me.

No time wasters or children or single males need apply. I seek a COUPLE and nothing else. Are you who I seek?

Sir.Strict

Contacting Sir Strict

You may, after you read My blog on The Cuckold Lifestyle, contact Me to discuss your needs and how I may be able to help you. The following, however, must be noted:

A) If you are looking for someone to "convince" or "coerce" your partner into becoming a participant in this lifestyle, that someone is NOT Me. I do not, under ANY circumstances, convince or coerce anyone, male or female, into this lifestyle. Either you have talked it through like intelligent adults (NOT in bed but sitting opposite each other and talking like adults), or you haven't. If you haven't I don't have any time for you. Communication between the two of you will solve the vast majority of problems you foresee now. If you can't communicate with each other your marriage will fail, and using this lifestyle as a means or a reason for it to fail I will not become a part of.

B) If I agree to speak with the two of you the following rule is NON-NEGOTIABLE. You and I will speak on one of the chat messengers (I have MSN Messenger, Yahoo Messenger, and Skype) so if you have none of those, get one. They are all free to use and to download. When we speak We will ALL use a webcam and voice communications. No webcam and voice capability? NO talk. It's that simple. ALL new computers (bought in the past 3 years) have voice and video capability so if yours doesn't work, get it repaired and we will talk. Do NOT ask to communicate online if you don't have a webcam and voice working from one of the three chat messengers listed above. Again, No chat messenger, No video webcam and NO voice = NO communication with Me directly at all. 

C) I train couples just as it says in this blog - to use the lifestyle to their advantage and to protect their marriage at the same time. That is what I teach and what I will always teach. I will, during the training period, become the cuckoldresses Dominant (and the cuckolds as well) but, and this is a BIG But - I will NOT fuck anyone, not now, not then, not ever. I do NOT do that. If needed I have competent clean assistants who will fulfil that function, but I do NOT do it Myself. I will teach her how to give head, how to entice and use her Stud for her pleasure,  and how to maintain her marriage in the mean time. I will also answer for her any question she may have about sexual play. I simply will not fuck her, or anyone else. IS that clear enough??

If you wish to contact me, read the blog, and then write sir.strict@gmail.com and I will respond. If further contact is desired, and you wish to book training for the two of you, then you WILL have a chat messenger, and will both talk with Me there via webcam and voice. If there is no webcam or voice, contact will NOT be maintained.

And no, I will not continue to answer written questions or requests if the two of you are unable or unwilling to talk directly online via webcam.

Hopefully that is now clear to all. If not, please feel free to write and ask for clarification.

Sir.Strict

A slightly different take on the lifestyle

Hello to those reading this. It's been a long while since I wrote anything due mainly to ill health on my part which finally is starting to turn around. My apologies to those who have wondered where I have gone.

I recently helped a couple enter this lifestyle who have a slightly different take on the traditional way the lifestyle is practiced. In a nutshell, their story is this:

They are married and have been for over 20 years. They are comfortably well off, and have contemplated joining this lifestyle - but with a difference. Neither of them have a desire to see her have sexual intercourse with anyone but her husband. However.... she is an excellent oralist and simply LOVES giving and getting oral sex. Her husband also enjoys watching her sucking other males and females but as I said, neither of them wish her to have penile/vaginal sex, simply oral sex and a lot of it.

This is a very different take on the lifestyle and I personally find it a wonderful addition to the way the lifestyle is practiced. There is no chance of unwanted pregnancy, and the sensation of watching his wife orally pleasure another man or woman is, according to the husband, at least as gratifying as seeing her fucking someone. She simply loves being orally serviced (her breasts, her mouth, and her vagina and anal cavity), and also loves (like few women I've ever met) providing a very very talented mouth to please her sexual partners with.

They are both aware of the dangers of anal (rimming) sex but take appropriate precautions to ensure they are protected. Both of them can go on and on explaining their predilection to giving and receiving oral sex (he will also participate in sucking her partners hard for her and cleaning up after her oral sexual encounters) and both have found that this form of cuckolding is suited to their own situation.

I applaud their innovativeness and tenacity at continuing their foray into the lifestyle, and thought you should know that this is yet another way to enjoy the cuckold lifestyle. Remember, there are NO hard and fast rules for the way YOU participate in this age old lifestyle. Whatever works for the two of you, works... and should be mutually enjoyable.

Anyone out there ready to give it a try? *smile*..

Enjoy

Can a cuckoldress have more than one lover?

I have recently been asked if it is permissible to have more than one lover? Let's go over some basics which will answer this question for you.

The two of YOU, and NO ONE ElSE, have the right to say that you can have as many lovers as you wish to have. This is YOUR choice of lifestyle. Others that you bring into it may contribute to it but YOU run the show. NO One, and I include Myself in that statement even though I am a Dom, NO ONE but YOU can say how many lovers you wish to have, should have, or indeed will have. That is a decision that must be made between your partner and yourself.

I know of a cuckoldress who has one extra lover. This lover is indeed a childhood sweetheart and though she is now married to someone else, this lover is her REAL lover. Her husband is relegated to cleanup duties on both of them (by consent of course). She has decided that this lover is the only one she has ever wanted and thus the three of them are gloriously happy.

I also know of a cuckoldress who has upwards of 45 lovers that she can call on at any time, dependent on her wishes and desires at the time. Naturally not all of them would feel an emotional attachment to her and her partner, but she is willing to accept that for regular, mind blowing sex.

Neither women are wrong in their choice of how many lovers they have. What suits them is just that, it suits them. Your chosen lifestyle, though old (remember, it's been in existence since at least the middle of the 12th century), is still today made up by the participants to suite their needs. Thus, as few D/s or M/s couples are the same, few cuckold couples are the same as well.

Remember though, it is imperative that the two of you act as adults and discuss openly and honestly with each other what you desire, and agree on a course of action that will suite both of you. Do NOT have that discussion in bed as the sex will only cloud the issue and keep it in the realm of fantasy. Sit at a table, across from each other, and speak openly and honestly with each other and mutually decide what both of you want, then go make it happen.

Indeed she may have taken the Dominant role (and now consider herself to be a true Domina) but you both need to input your ideas and honest thoughts into the makeup of your partnership. Do that and you won't go wrong. Keep it a secret from each other (and by that I mean ANYTHING) and you will ultimately destroy your partnership.

So YOU choose how many lovers you wish to have, how to handle them all, how to handle your partner, and then go and enjoy your life.

Stay safe, well, and happy.

Sir.Strict

Yes, I'm still alive *chuckles*

It has been a while since I have added anything to this blog. I have recently joined a society called the cuckold society, which tries to put people interested in this lifestyle in contact with each other. I though I should bring that to your attention. You may wish to join the society yourself and you can do that at the following website: http://www.thecuckoldsociety.com/ . I hope to see you there.


And to answer any questions asking if I still train couples who are entering that lifestyle the answer is very much in the affirmative. I still believe that I can help people enter this lifestyle in safe ways so that they do not harm what they already have. Please also read this blog from the bottom up as that is how it was written. If you need assistance please do not hesitate to contact me.


Sir Strict

Yes I'm still here *smile*

I have recently had email from those who have read My blog asking if I'm still around and still active in teaching couples entering this lifestyle, or not. The answer is yes, I am still here and still teaching. I realise that I havn't made a new submission to this blog since 2008 and I apologise for that. Time simply has flown by as I've been helping couples come to grips with their newfound lifestyle. Indeed, I have helped 4 couples in 2008, 5 in 2009, and am now resting simply because I recently fell and broke My left leg. It is now healing well and I'm about to resume counceling, so if you are interested in learning how to enter this lifestyle without it damaging your relationship, contact Me and let's see what I can do to help you.

And thank you to all those who sent well wishes while I've been recuperating. Stay safe, happy, and well.

Sir.Strict

Sir.Strict@gmail.com

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Hello and Welcome

If you are reading My blog I assume you are seeking competent advice on this lifestyle and how to live within it. This blog is looooooooooong *smile* and it contains a mountain of information. Thus it is advisable to bookmark this blog and read it slowly, from the bottom up, as that is how it was posted. Do not start at the top, start at the bottom. Then it will make more sense to you.

I have successfully trained couples in this lifestyle for over 32 years and have been a BDSM Dom for over 38 years. My training is FREE OF CHARGE and is here to assist couples to enjoy this lifestyle while maintaining their own loving relationship in the process.

It is suggested that both members of any couple read this blog, then sit down like adults over coffee and discuss the lifestyle. If you then wish to embark on the most rewarding extra-marital extra-sexual relationship on the planet, contact Me and let's start your training.

I am happy to receive email from you at any time but will not reply to timewasters or those who post invective. If you are real I wish to help you. If you're looking for cock picks, fantasy, or anything else as childish, enjoy your day but move on.

Sir.Strict THE DomTrainerOfCuckCpls

sir.strict@gmail.com

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A question of prejudice

I wish to make a statement that many will disagree with.

I know this because it is about something that is so imbedded in the thought pattern of so many North Americans in particular that it raises its head in almost every discussion about this lifestyle. What others choose to believe in their fantasy world is entirely their choice, but from experience I know the following to be true.

It appears that many feel that cock size and/or the ability to use it effectively as a lover, is restricted and governed by the colour of one's skin. That has to be the most prejudicial statement based on pure fantasy that there ever has been. If you happen to believe that cock size or the ability to use is it based on race, then you have a prejudice My friend, and like it or not, it is untrue.

I have trained approximately two couples per year over the past 30 years, and based on that experience, and on those who inhabit My "stable" of males and females I have to call upon to assist in training, I KNOW that no one race has a superiority of ANY kind.

I have trained couples from the white, black, red, yellow (and other Asian races), tan, olive, and South Pacific races. I also have seen enormous cocks in all of those races, as well as cocks so miniscule as to almost make them non-existent. Therefore if you, as a cuckold or cuckold couple, distance yourself from ANY race simply based on the colour of skin, you are missing out on a world of large and effective cocks to add to the pleasure of your arrangement. Don't believe Me? Ask your doctor as he/she has no doubt treated all races of people and will confirm what I've said.

Prejudice of ANY kind on this little green speck in space makes NO sense whatsoever. Don't limit yourself and your enjoyment by choosing only one race to have sex with (white included). All races have people who are sized just like any other race. Skin colour matters not a bit in the final analysis of lovers and their cuckoldresses. Good people, no matter what race they are, is what is important to ensure you get the full benefit from a cuckold lifestyle.

I know this view will not be shared by all, but like it or not, it is the truth, and also what I have observed first hand over the past 32 years of training people to live in this lifestyle without it damaging their own partnership. Use your head and choose people who mesh with your own desires and make intelligent decisions about those you take as lovers. In that way you will indeed enhance your partnership, not screw it up.

Enjoy.

Sir.Strict - THE DomTrainerOfCuckCpls.

sir.strict@gmail.com

The Necessity for Contracts

Hello and welcome back.

When I train a cuckold couple that training usually is 2 weeks in length (though it can take longer depending on what the couple wishes and what arrangements are made beforehand) and takes place on the Gold Coast of Queensland Australia. I have trained to a limited degree, couples online but obviously the results obtainable in a face to face training is unsurpassed.

So dear reader - remember that this "contract" is between Myself as the trainer and the cuckold couple, or cuckoldress or cuckold involved. Do not take the dates or time durations etc as being something you must do. It is for your interest and understanding only.

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Below is a description of what I, as a Cuckold Couple or Slut Trainer, do in person, how I do it, how it is run, and what you need to do to have your cuckoldress (and yourself?) trained as a true cuckoldress by Me. You are to read it, and then return it to Me with the words "I agree" or "I have done as told" attached to each section of this contract signed with your name.

You will then make any and all travel arrangements to arrive at Coolangatta airport on the dates specified, and will contact the hotel I use and make your partners as well as your reservations and pay for them in advance.

Next you will IMMEDIATELY inform Me of the detals of the arrangements you have made so that I may inform any Male or Female training assistants of their need, in the hopes that they will be free to accommodate any training or use to fuck your cuckoldress that is required. These are very busy people and are not always available. Thus it is imperative that as soon as you have made arrangements, that you inform Me of them so that I can contact and book these highly qualified individuals.

NO MONETARY EXCHANGE is EVER made by Me, or anyone involved with Me in this enterprise. The reason We do this is NOT to make money. So no, there is never ANY charge for this training. Our desire is to assist couples to learn what the lifestyle is about, how to handle the many psychological barriers that may be encountered, and to provide actual training in the arts of love making and service to a competent Master or lovers in future.

Also Note: NO ONE will be allowed to fuck your slut/partner/wife/cuckoldress until you are present to witness it. The description and contract follow:

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1. First of all I do NOT send photos of the males or females I use to train My sluts to ANYONE. I have various males and females that I use to assist Me in training sluts and I and they, will NOT be "coaxed" into ANYTHING so unprofessional and childish as sending cock picks for you to see. If you want to see a photo of a male cock, do a web search for one.

I agree: signed - (male ) (female )

2. I have ONE black male that I call on to service those who wish it, but ONLY ONE. This is not a "Takeaway" where you choose how many orders of "black" or "white" meat to have, with a side order of "a bisexual female". I, and ONLY I, will choose who is allowed to fuck and use your slut after her initial training with you present, NO one else.

Plus, if you honestly feel that the length of a cock or the ability to use it is encumbant on skin color you are guilty of the most prejudicial thinking there is. And THAT statement is based on experience, not someone's lame prejudicial fantasy.

I agree: signed - (male ) (female )

3. The fact that you have to travel to the Gold Coast is not My problem. This is where it happens in safety and comfort, it is where I supply the training and sex in safety and comfort AND the ability for you to watch as other males (and occasionally females) use her and give her the orgasms she so rightly deserves, NOT anywhere else.

I agree: signed - (male ) (female )

4. Your wife/partner will be required to be here "On Her Own" for 5 DAYS befrore you get to join her in her training sessions and thus see anything involved in her training. Her training will be comprehensive and complete (and no, she will not be fucked by anyone until you are present). Her initial training by Me alone is necessary to psychologically train her to be a competent slut for you in future. That training will be done exclusively by Me. You may be present at night, but you will disappear during the daytime in the initial week of her training so that she may derive the upmost benefit from that week.

Also know that I WILL NOT FUCK YOUR WIFE - EVER, not during or after training. I do not fuck any woman Myself. I will be responsible for her oral training however to ensure she is also an accomplished oral slut for you and/or her future lovers. Because of the nature of the training no one, including you, will be allowed to be present during this initial 5 days of training. Once it is finished, and she is ready to try fucking other men for you, then, and ONLY then will you or anyone else be allowed to be present.

I agree: signed - (male ) (female )

5. You, as a male cuckold, if you both wish, will also be trained in whatever manner the two of you decide as being appropriate. You may wish to simply learn how to handle the fact that other men (and/or women) now sexually enjoy your partner, you may wish to learn now to serve her Master or she and her lovers, or you may wish to learn how to sexually serve her lovers as well (orally, anally, humiliation, etc). ANY training is possible, including simply having you sit and watch her make love to others or film her on you own equipment for the enjoyment of the two of you, but it must be a joint decision between the two of you and presented as such to Me.

Remember, this lifestyle is ONLY going to work for you if BOTH OF YOU agree on trying it in your relationship.

Though this lifestyle has been around since the mid 12th century, it is NOT for everyone. Thus, I cannot stress strongly enough that the two of you need to decide if you wish to try it or not, and to what extent you wish to involve yourself in pleasureable sexual activities with males and females of your own choosing. This lifestyle is meant to enhance your relationship, not destroy it. Keep that in mind.

I agree: signed - (male ) (female )

6. Therefore, IF you are serious, and IF you wish Me to proceed, you will book her into the *Name withheld in the interest of security but supplied when confirmation information is supplied re your training* Hotel in Southport, Queensland (next to Surfers Paradise - see Google MAPS to see where that is.)

NOTE: You may book into the same hotel and the two of you will spend evenings together. I will be present between 8:15am and 3:30pm daily for that first week. YOU will be ABSENT during that time, unless I tell you otherwise.

I agree: signed - (male ) (female )

7. This service is FREE OF MONETARY CHARGES.
You will pay for your accommodation and food etc as a normal course of events, but I do NOT and never will charge money for training people how to enhance their partnership. I believe those who do charge money for that service are, in My opinion, not worth dealing with.

I agree: signed - (male ) (female )

Be well.

Sir.Strict - THE cuckold couple trainer.

Sir.Strict@gmail.com .

I WILL help you both if you're real.

Clearing The Air

I am writing this entry in hopes it will clear the air about misconceptions and fears that many have with anything online. I would be the first to tell people to be cautious, but I also want to state publically the following for ALL to see. If anyone can prove Me wrong, please email Me and let's chat.

It is suggeted that, if you are reading this blog for the first time, you start at the bottom and work up. Be aware - it is LONG. Do NOT attempt to read and digest it all in one try. However it was posted in that order. Enjoy.

1. Do I make money from this site or from the training I do? NO. I never have, nor will I ever make one cent from this. Nor will I allow anyone associated with the training I do make ANY monetary gain from their contribution. This is Free advice, Free training. Yes, the training should always be done here and thus, yes, there is travel and accommodation involved but you set that up. I do NOT make anything from those either. YOU book them yourself.

As a help in finding suitable accommodation here, I have found a local hotel overlooking the sea, which is known more to locals than the general public, that doesn't cost the price of your first born to stay in it, yet it is clean, nice, private, close to everything, and enjoyable. Look at the "In Person Contract " in this blog and you'll see the criteria used. When, and ONLY when, you make your bookings for training, I will tell you the hotel name and how to access it (which can be viewed online and booked by you online as well).

2. Do I train only one member of a couple? Primarily that depends on the people involved, and the extent of their training needs. But suffice it to say that I have trained both cuckoldresses alone and cuckolds alone. However - their partner is always here with them and nearby as well. The fact that their partner does not wish to be trained is their decision, but their presence is required none the less. ALL training sessions last from approximately 8:15am to approximately 3:00pm daily.

3. Why do I say the first week of training is to be with the female cuckoldress and Myself alone? It's simple really. That time is primarily used to give the woman a forum for discussion that she previously has not had. In this way, she can discuss, with a somewhat "disinterested third party" her wants, needs, desires, fears, worries, etc. etc. In other words, she is free to talk about ANYTHING that has concerned her in the past, or that she can see to be a problem for her in the future. The vast majority of women NEVER GET THAT CHANCE. When I train, yours will.

Like most things, when things like fears or concerns are brought out into the open and discussed rationally, especially with a somewhat "disinterested third party", they tend to disappear.

3.a. I also, if a woman asks, or I can determne she should receive training in, anything sexual, I will find a way to provide that training. I don't just "fuck" women. That is not why they are primarily here for training, nor why I do this. However, if they wish to hone their oral skills, or enticement, or anal skills, or what ever they feel they need help with, I will try to provide that council and training as well.

Let Me be clear on this. I do not and will not, at any time, fuck anyone. I maintain what is known as "the Stable" which is composed of men and women who volunteer to fulfill sexual activities for those who wish it to happen. These people are all busy business people and are not always available. However I can guarantee that those I use in this capacity are all d and d free, are wel versed in the arts of lovemaking, and are good honest people.

3.b. and yes, the same holds true for any submissive cuckold. In the second week he gets a training session as well, though it may be necessary to have also his cuckoldress present when I train him. The point is, yes, I will train cuckolds - how to serve, how to fluff, how to do cleanup, how to provide what ever his cuckoldress and her lover require of him.

4. Will I keep in touch after the training? Hopefully yes, I will, via email and also via Yahoo messenger contact. But ONLY if the couple wishes that contact.

5. And maybe this is the most telling and important part of this blog: Why do I do this? Why spend the time trying to make it easier for people to embrace or at least try this lifestyle? Simply because I'm one of those people who enjoys helping other people. It's that simple. I have been involved in this lifestyle as a trainer (and initialy as a bull though I detest that term), and wish to help others realise that this lifestyle can help them live their fantasy..without destroying their relationship in the process. If she wishes sex with others, and/or he wishes bisexual servitude with others, or he simply wants to know that his partner is having good fulfilling beautiful sex and is satisfied.... and I can help them both achieve that goal, then I have helped someone. THAT is the ONLY reason I do this. There is NO other.

6. I am in Australia on what is known as the Gold Coast of the state of Queensland (look it up online). YES, that is probably a long way from you, but know this: I have successfully trained over 57 couples now, in the last 32 years, from the USA, Canada, the UK, Germany, New Zealand, and Australia. If they came here, and now pass My contact to others to contact Me for the trainig I provide, I must be doing something right or they wouldn't pass on My contact. I do NOT travel any more. If you wish My training YOU come to Me.7. Where can you contact Me? The email I have set up for this is Sir.Strict@gmail.com .

I also can be added to your yahoo messenger as time goes on, but that is when I am assured that certain things are in place. Anyone trying to add Me to their list of contacts before the criteria is met will be deleted.

Thank you for plowing through this section, but hopefully it has helped to answer questions you may have. If you have any questions after reading this blog, email Me and let's discuss it.

Sir.Strict THE DomTrainerOfCuckCpls

sir.strict@gmail.com

Is A Dom or Domme Necessary?

I have been asked this question on numerous occasions over the years by those investigating or starting out in this lifestyle, and though I am a Dom and continue to be a Dom for over 38 years, the true answer is "No". Now, before all the Doms and Dommes in the world have fits, read on.

I have stated on numerous occasions that this lifestyle is for, built by, controlled by, instituted by, and for the enjoyment of the couple involved. In other words, it is the couples responsibilitiy to figure out for themselves if they wish the 3rd party (or parties) to their relationship to be Dominant or not. Some may well wish their partner in this lifestyle to be a Dom or Domme who will guide, nurture, and use the couple as they see fit.

Remember this ONE guiding principal in the cuckold lifestyle: This lifestyle choice should be used to enhance your relationship and marriage, not destroy it. A good and competent Master or Mistress will wish the same for you and your partner.

One advantage of having a Master or Mistress is to fulfill the Dominant role that either or both of you may have. Some also enjoy a level of humiliation attached to their own role in this lifestyle and that also can only be acommodated safely and properly by the use of a Competent Master or Mistress. And yes, I say competent because as in all things, many feel that if they yell or hollar or bluster or use force, they are a Master or Mistress. NOTHING could be farther from the truth.

A Competent Master and a Competent Mistress have had years of involvement and have learned their craft. They realise and accept the responsibility for the safety and pleasure of their submissive(s) as much if not more than their own. Thus choose wisely.

As in all things in this blog, if you wish to contact Me for further assistance of any kind, Please do so via email to Sir.Strict@gmail.com Enjoy your search.

Sir.Strict THE DomTrainerOfCuckCpls

sir.strict@gmail.com

Why Use a Chat Messenger?

I have recently been asked why I use a chat messenger as well as chat in a java based website. Mainly it is to discuss with those I train the various aspects they may be interested in learning, especially for those who cannot travel to take their training in person.

The different chat facilities vary in their operation and reliability and I will attempt to show you what I mean here.

A chat messenger allows you to stay in touch with others you may wish to converse with while out of the java chat rooms you may have encountered. Indeed, if you are reading My blog it is quite likely that W/we met in a java based chat room that you use in your web browser.

Many of them now also incorporate voice communications and video communications as well.

Indeed, My chat client of choice is Yahoo Messenger, available from http://messenger.yahoo.com

I have tried MSN Messenger, found at http://get.live.com/messenger/overview,

Aim, found at http://www.aim.com/download.adp,

ICQ, found at http://www.icq.com/download/,

EyeBall Chat, found at http://www.eyeballchat.com/ ,

and Meebo, found at found at http://wwwl.meebo.com/ .

Though they all work, and though meebo allows you to connect to the other messenger clients as well, much of the functionality of Yahoo is lost when shared with other messengers. Thus, I suggest that Yahoo is the most stable and most enjoyable messenger software yet available and I suggest that you do your own research on them as well.

As I am not always in the chat room, Yahoo messenger also affords the ability of leaving offline messages which the recipient will get once they log on. When setting yours up it will ask you for an email address. You can give them an existing email address or the one Yahoo will offer you at the time of registration.

I have ONE criteria that MUST be followed before I will add anyone to My list of contacts. That is that whomever I speak with on a chat messenger MUST have an active webcam. This is to ensure that:

a) I'm speaking with people who are adults and thus legally available for such chat, and

b) that who I am speaking with is who they purport to be.

The rule, therefore, is, no webcam, no chat. It's that simple and no, there are NO exceptions to this rule.

Keep in mind that these are all freeware and thus costs you nothing. They enable you to keep in touch, in private, with anyone you add to your list of contacts.I hope to see you there.Sir.Strict

Sir.Strict THE DomTrainerOfCuckCpls

sir.strict@gmail.com