Throughout history if a woman desired more good sex than she received from her partner she either did without it, or she took courage in hand and sought it elsewhere.
That didn’t mean she ended her marriage or arrangement with her partner but it did mean that, from societies point of view, she “cheated” on her partner. Even in our western music we have instances of this happening and if one remembers the song by Kenny Rogers titled “Ruby, Don’t Take Your Love To Town” one remembers that the singer (the male partner) is a returned war veteran with a disability, and is thus unable to provide his partner with the sexual fulfillment she needs.
However, unlike that song, the woman in that position who finds herself with a partner who not only shares her concern for sexual fulfillment, but wishes to help her find fulfillment elsewhere, has a cuckold for a partner/husband and thus enters into a cuckold relationship.
Many women in this type of relationship go looking for sexual fulfillment in all the wrong ways and all the wrong places, and thus both partners end up being dissatisfied with the outcome. Yes, she will be getting all the sexual activity she desires, but possibly not from the people or types of people she desires, and certainly seldom safely.
Her partner will seldom be totally satisfied in his cuckold desires either and may find himself unable or unhappy with the way he is able to fulfill or not fulfill his part in the arrangement.
Thus, the woman needs, first and foremost, to explore various possibilities, including sex with known friends, sex with strangers but in a safe environment, sex with strangers in unsafe environments, and sex under the control of a strong Dominant (either male or female). She may also find that sex with another female will suffice and provide the entire sexual fulfillment she desires.
The important thing to remember about a sexually liberated woman who seeks more sexual fulfillment than she presently has, is can she find it in a safe, sane, and consensual environment on her own, or does she feel it wise to allow a Dominant to assist her to find her sexual fulfillment or not. She also must realise that not only sexual intercourse will provide what she desires, but she may also find that sex in ways that her partner denies her, or does poorly, is what she needs (oral, anal, manipulative sexual release).
Her partner will normally encourage her in any attempt to find sexual fulfillment and enjoyment. Indeed, in those who have found their mutual enjoyment enhanced, many have found that a sexual Dominant, who takes both the male and female partners of a cuckold relationship under His/Her wing, is the answer that best serves their needs and desires, as the Dominant fulfills many roles, including procurer of safe sexual partners (for both the male and female cuckold partners) as well as the responsibility of ensuring that both partners desires are basically met.
As always, if you have questions about this lifestyle, ask them and let Me try to find you a suitable answer. My 32 years of involvement in this lifestyle and the D/s lifestyle is there to give council.
Sir.Strict THE DomTrainerOfCuckCpls
sir.strict@gmail.com
